Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Bucket filling - asking, helping, sharing a concept to share [Review & Giveaway]

We've all heard of "Bucket Lists" and things to do or accomplish before we're "gone." But there is an even brighter and better concept of buckets. That is - bucket filling. What is it? Who does it? And why do it?

The authors Carol McCloud and Karen Wells have a designed books for a variety of ages and the theme of them all is helping and sharing happiness and kindness. What a much better world we would have in which to live if we all carried around virtual buckets which we filled and which we allowed others to fill for us. There would be more gentleness, more kindness, more happiness and there would be less strife, less meanness, less bullying, and less sadness.

The end pages of Will You Fill My Bucket? give some really good information that I wish to share.....
Imagine that as a very young child you were never held in someone's arms, never pushed on a swing, never cuddled, never played with or even spoken to. Tragically, the world discovered that this was life for many children in the Socialist Republic of Romania from 1974 to 1989.
Determined to increase his country's population and build its workforce, Romanian president Nicolae Ceausescu's regime forced women to bear children they could not afford to care for, which resulted in an estimated 150,000 babies and children being warehoused in state-run institutions. While basic needs for food and water may have been met, these orphaned children were fundamentally deprived of love, touch, and human affection. . . . . . We now know that children's buckets, which represent their mental, emotional, and social health, require daily filling with positive affirmation, acknowledgment, and affection. 
Human need for love and affection knows no boundaries; it is the same around the world.
So let's see just what these books look like and how they can be used in my life, your life, your children's lives, and in schools across the world.

ISBN13: 9781933916439
Ages 4 - 7

Fill a Bucket: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Young Children by Carol McCloud   

This award-winning prequel to Have You Filled a Bucket Today? is the perfect gift for anyone with little ones they love.  When children have their buckets filled and learn how they can fill other people's buckets too, they understand how special, valuable, and capable they are.

My thoughts: This is such a sweet and cute book. It begins by telling how a wee little baby is loved and cared for and how that fills the baby's bucket (his loving heart) and it fills the caregiver's bucket (their heart). It goes on through the child's life showing how kindness and care can fill the child's bucket and buckets of others as well. A lovely book to give a beginner's concept of being kind and how that kindness helps you and others. Charming!

ISBN13: 9781938326134
Ages 4 - 8

Bucket Filling from A to Z: The Key to Being Happy by Carol McCloud, Caryn Butzke, Glenn Zimmer (Illustrator)

This award-winning book uses the letters of the alphabet to help young and old see the many, simple ways that they can fill buckets and fill their own buckets in return. When you help children become bucket fillers, you give them the key to happiness...for it is in friendship, love, and good will to others that we are truly happy. Yes, bucket filling is the moment by moment choice to be kind and caring. Teaching and encouraging children to be bucket fillers is one of the greatest gifts you can give to them.

My thoughts: Very early on in a young child's development, they start learning their ABC's and there is a bounty of different books available that will help teach them as well as entertain. With Bucket Filling from A to Z the child is taken through an energetic rendering of each of the letters beautifully and joyfully illustrated by Glenn Zimmer. They learn how to fill their own buckets and the buckets of others by their acts of love and kindness. They learn, too, that being ugly and mean or bullying result in bucket dipping where someone takes from your bucket or you take from their bucket by dipping. You really don't want to be a bucket dipper robbing others or yourself of joy. This is a delightfully cute book and I love how it seems that a variety of racial and ethnic groups is part of the story.

Hardcover SBN13: 9780996099943
Soft cover ISBN13: 9780996099936
Ages 4-9
Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids by Carol McCloud

Through simple prose and vivid illustrations, this heartwarming book encourages positive behaviour as children see how rewarding it is to express daily kindness, appreciation, and love. Bucket filling and dipping are effective metaphors for understanding the effects of our actions and words on the well being of others and ourselves.

My thoughts: In Have You Filled A Bucket Today? basically takes you through the gentle procedure of filling buckets and finding happiness in doing so. The text is short and to the point giving a variety of activities and instances in which you can share happiness and joy in filling buckets. The illustrations by David Messing are really cute and engaging.

Will You Fill My Bucket?: Daily Acts of Love Around the World by Carol McCloud, Karen Wells

A simple question, Will You Fill My Bucket?, is fervently asked by children from twelve different countries. Sweet rhyming prose and vividly captivating illustrations delight the senses and express the deep joy and love we hope for all children. Will You Fill My Bucket? and the responses given will touch the heartstrings of people young and old around the world. Bucket filling, the essence of being loved and loving others, occurs in those little moments in a day when you stop and just listen, cuddle, play, or spend time with a child.

My thoughts: Will You Fill My Bucket? just might be my favorite of the "bucket" books. I love the easy rhyme and beautiful, joyful pictures throughout. Pictured are people from all nations of the earth - or so it seems when I look at it. It is a really good representation of loving, caring people around the world. So they ask, "Will you fill my bucket with a "hug"......

"Will you fill my bucket
and make me happy, too?
Will you fill my bucket
with the love that comes from you?"

GIVEAWAY

1 softcover copy of each book listed here
Begins August 2
ENDS August 25
Open to USA addresses only
a Rafflecopter giveaway
Have a bit of fun with a cute puzzle (from the Bucket Filler website. Just click to open)
preview30 pieceBucket
DISCLOSURE: I received complimentary copies of each of the books to facilitate the review. Opinions are my own. I was not compensated. Giveaway prize copies are provided by the author and/or publisher.

28 comments:

  1. Yes! As long as you have any contact with another person during a day ,you could help fill their emotional bucket.

    Nancy
    allibrary (at) aol (dot) com

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  2. I learned that on their site Bucket Fillers have an FAQ section and also a Resources section.

    Nancy
    allibrary (at) aol (dot) com

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  3. Yes, that is my goal everyday! Right now, I have to concentrate on filling my husband's bucket as he is very ill.

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  4. Bucket Filling from A to Z: The Key to Being Happy and Bucket Filling from A to Z Poster Set

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  5. I will help with my neighbor. He lost his wife last month. I will call and ask him to join my husband and me for coffee and get him out of his home.

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  6. I would fill my friend's bucket because they are trying to find a new location to live and they are frustrated.
    Marilyn

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  7. The poster set and the FAQ.
    Marilyn

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  8. Yes. By being extra kind and helping out.

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  9. I need to find time daily to fill my recently widowed mom's bucket.

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  10. I definitely can "fill someone's bucket" today. I think the best way to do this is by being kind and caring to others!

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  11. I learned that John E. Valusek, Ph.D was one of the first people to write about Bucket Filling. After, that Merrill Lundgren was one of the people to dedicate his life to teaching others about the Bucket Filling concept. Interesting!

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  12. I learned the 10th Anniversary Edition received Honorable Mention in the 2016 Green Book Festival and you can work with babies to fill their bucket.

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  13. I would like to fill my children's buckets.

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  14. I learned that you can buy merchandise and you can get free resources.

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  15. I have made efforts to help fill other people's buckets and my own too, as often as I can, every way that I can think of. It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes from Mother Theresa that I try to live by and taught our 5 kids to live by "If I can't do great things in life, then I hope to do many small things with great love!"

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  16. On theirwebsite I discovered that
    1. they have lots of free resources, activities and free downloadables.
    2. They are located in Brighton MI which is only 25 min away from where I live, in Farmington Hills, MI

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  17. I have always loved the visual of the concept of 'bucket filling'. I think it's so clever to have created this series of books to teach the concept to kids (and adults!). So often it comes back to being intentional with our actions.

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  18. I will fill my daughter's bucket today by surprising her with a scavenger hunt that focuses on her good character traits and what I love about her (compliments).

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  19. I am a 6th grade teacher with 100 students. I try to fill their buckets all day long.
    Dianna

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  20. I love this idea of bucket filling! I can see that it would make a lovely learning unit for school about kindness! Thank you for sharing this at Booknificent Thursday on Mommynificent.com this week.
    Tina

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  21. I learned that I can sign up for the e-newsletter in 3 different ways: email, entering QR code, and text message.

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  22. I helped to fill my daughter's bucket by helping her to fill out an application/questions online for a new job.

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  23. I think I can try to fill someone's bucket today. Probably my son's since he has been needing a lot of help these days.

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  24. I learned they have a lot of free resources and when you sign up for their newsletter you could win a copy of our latest book!

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  25. I love sending little gifts to my Grandchildren, today I ordered some cookies for them to brighten their day. My Granddaughter has already started school so she will love having them in her lunch.

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  26. I found out that they started in 2006. I love the printouts available. When printing a bucket list to send to the Grands, I saw where it said smile a 5 people today, My daughter and I used to go out shopping or getting something to eat and the 1st one that made someone smile won points. Some people thought we were crazy, but making funny faces at some of the people made them finally laugh or smile. God gave us a simple gift of love and we do need to fill a bucket everyday.

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  27. I think I can fill somebody's bucket today. I could pay for somebody behind me meal or leave a Starbucks gift card laying around somewhere.

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  28. I learned on the Bucket Fillers website that since 2006, they have been trying create a bucket filling environment in school,workplaces and the community. I also learned that they do presentations and they have free downloadable materials on their website for your own Bucket Filling presentation.

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